Congratulations! You’ve killed another kid. You must feel pretty special and superior. I mean, after all, to get someone to kill themselves, you really had to work at it. Plus, you got to take their whole families with them, because, quite frankly, they will NEVER get over it.
Because of your great ingenuity, there is a new term, called, “bullycide”, which is a suicide caused by the effects of bullying.
Did you just drive your victims crazy by getting into their heads at school? Or were you even more cowardly and bully them from cyberspace. That way, you can be especially cruel and use annonymity to really torment a person.
The thing I don’t understand, you bunch of assholes, is WHY. Why do you find this fun? Why do you just get off on making a person so miserable that they would rather walk in front of a bus to avoid spending one more day with your hostility and hate?
I know that you find it all pretty funny, but guess what? All you assholes are only ONE STEP FROM BEING BULLIED YOURSELVES!
One step. What do I mean by this? Well, all you have to step off a curb in the wrong way and you could be laid up for months. Think it couldn’t happen? Well, it has. Guess what? You can get pretty fat in a short time of not being able to get exercise or run around with all your great friends.
Or you could be one step away from an autoimmune disease which suddenly takes all your hair away, including eyebrows and eyelashes. This happens in an instant. Oh no, could someone maybe make fun of you for that? Of course, you could just get MS. At it’s most severe, you become totally disabled. That’s a really fun one to make fun of.
Then there’s always the best one: CANCER. Oh my gosh. That radiation and chemotherapy can really do some pretty mean things to your beautiful hair and skin. But naw…nobody would make fun of you for that, would they? Of course they would because there are idiots like you all over the place.
So, while you’re contemplating your next victim, watch your step. You’re very close to becoming the bullied rather than the bully. But hey…I’m sure you can handle it. You have such a great sense of humor…asshole!
TO THE BULLIED:
I know that peope say that it’s only a year or a couple of years until you’re out on your own and all these people will be behind you. That’s a simplistic way to look at it. However, there ARE people and resources to help you. Whether it’s an aunt or uncle, teacher, counselor, coach or family friend, talk to someone.
I know that as a teen, that time seems like an eternity. It’s not. You will leave these people far behind you. Your life is precious and you have your whole lives ahead of you. Don’t let these idiots take it away from you.
FRIENDS, TEACHERS, FAMILY OF THE BULLIED: (Taken from bullyingstatistics.org):
The statistics on bullying and suicide are alarming:
Bully-related suicide can be connected to any type of bullying, including physical bullying, emotional bullying, cyberbullying, and sexting, or circulating suggestive or nude photos or messages about a person.
Some schools or regions have more serious problems with bullying and suicide related to bullying. This may be due to an excessive problem with bullying at the school. It could also be related to the tendency of students who are exposed to suicide to consider suicide themselves.
Some of the warning signs of suicide can include:
If a person is displaying these symptoms, talk to them about your concerns and get them help right away, such as from a counselor, doctor, or at the emergency room.
In some cases, it may not be obvious that a teen is thinking about suicide, such as when the suicide seems to be triggered by a particularly bad episode of bullying. In several cases where bullying victims killed themselves, bullies had told the teen that he or she should kill him or herself or that the world would be better without them. Others who hear these types of statements should be quick to stop them and explain to the victim that the bully is wrong.
Other ways to help people who may be considering suicide include:
People who are thinking about suicide should talk to someone right away or go to an emergency room. They can also call a free suicide hotline, such as 1-800-273-TALK (8255).
Friends and relatives of suicide victims also need to find someone to talk to as they grieve, especially if they are suffering from depression or suicidal thoughts themselves.
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